Be Present, Not Perfect
After a cancer diagnosis, your presence matters far more than getting it “right.” Avoid letting the fear of making a mistake keep you from showing up. Whether you are the one that is dealing with cancer, or supporting someone who is, our resources will help you find your way and get the support you need during this difficult time.
On the Road to Connection & Support - Helpful Tips and Resources
What's Next for my Friend w/ Cancer?
Finding out a friend has cancer can feel scary and overwhelming. Click the link below to learn what’s ahead and support with courage and compassion.
What do I Do?
What do I Say?
Is it the first time you know someone your age with cancer? Struggling with what to say or do, or how to support? Our tips will help you get through this together.
How can I help?
One Survivor's Tips
It’s hard to know where to start, and finding the balance between your own capacity to support and offering the support that will truly benefit your loved one takes time.
Resource Library
Each phase of the cancer experience, as well as support needs, will be different day to day. By understanding their unique diagnosis, practicing good communication skills, being in sync with their support needs, and being authentic in how you show up for each other, you will improve their quality of life.
Supporter Roadmap
Your go-to guide and first stop for improving connection and support after a cancer diagnosis.
Detailed Guide
Practical tools that break down what to expect, how to communicate, and how to offer meaningful support.
b-there App
Communication made easier. Coordinate support, share updates, and make sure needs are met — privately and securely.
Support Squad Webinars
Learn from people who have been there – real stories, expert advice, and insights from your community.
Send a Card
A simple, powerful way to show you care — choose a card design and write your own custom note to lift up a patient in their time of need.
Survivor Socials
Fun, welcoming activities where young adult cancer survivors and supporters can connect, recharge, and celebrate life together.
NEW - Support Starter Kits
Designed to help young adults recently diagnosed with cancer to feel supported and stay meaningfully connected to their social network. Check eligibility and sign up today!
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Other Helpful Resources
There are many great resources and organizations out there doing tremendous work advocating and supporting the AYA cancer community. You will find there is no more passionate community of support, but if you are just getting started, they can sometimes be hard to find. check out the links below for a head start.
Helpful Magazines
Information is power and can help you feel less alone in your experience. Elephants and Tea is a great resource.
Check out their digital and print magazines and their virtual and in-person events.
Staying Connected With Friends Near and Far
Whether you have a friend that is stuck in the hospital or a long-distance BFF, remember there are tons of ways to b-present and stay connected to friends from afar. A great online community to check out is Cactus Cancer Society, which provides a full spectrum of free, ground-breaking online wellness and support programs for young adults facing cancer. For additional ideas, read on.
Gift Ideas for Loved Ones with Cancer
Choosing thoughtful gifts for someone with cancer starts with knowing what your loved one truly wants and what to avoid. Whether you’re shopping for chemo patient gifts, Christmas gifts for children with cancer, or simply looking for gift ideas for families dealing with cancer, this guide will help you find meaningful options that show your love and support without adding unintentional stress.
AYA Cancer Community Organizations
We compiled a list of helpful resources and organizations specific to the AYA cancer community. Click the link below to learn about organizations that are specifically focused on the unique needs and experiences of the AYA population!