Hearing the words “I have cancer” from a loved one can be scary and overwhelming. Unanswered questions may include: What’s ahead? What do I do? What do I say? How do I act? How can I help? Am I capable of being by their side through thick and thin?

The b-there program provides the tools and resources that improve empathy and understanding, strengthen communication, and help adolescents and young adults with cancer and their social support network stay connected throughout treatment and beyond.

If we could give you one easy to remember piece of advice, it is this:

BE PRESENT NOT PERFECT

Avoid overthinking the situation and remember it is new and overwhelming for everyone.  Your loved one needs you now more than ever, so don’t let your fear of making a mistake get in the way of showing up. 

Keep reading to learn more about what’s ahead, how to be present, and the resources available to help you every step of the way.

Have specific questions and can’t find the answers you need? Let us know.

Cancer Phases & Support Needs

Each phase of the cancer experience, as well as support needs, will be different. By understanding their unique diagnosis, needs, and desire for support, communicating clearly and practicing good communication skills, and being authentic in how you show up for them, you will improve their quality of life. 

The Supporter Roadmap is a resource designed for anyone struggling with what is next and how they can stay connected and provide meaningful support after a loved one has been diagnosed with cancer.

Preview the digital supporter roadmap below and download your own personal digital copy by clicking the download button. Prefer a hard copy? Request free copies here. For more helpful resources and you chart your unique support path, click here.

Staying connected and receiving consistent and meaningful support is a patient’s lifeline. The b-there App eases the communication and ensures loved ones receive meaningful support consistent with their needs. Click here to download the b-there app on your Android or iOS device and get started today.

The first time an adolescent or young adult (AYA) hears the news that their friend or loved one has been diagnosed with cancer, they may be at a loss for what this means, and more importantly, how they can be supportive during this difficult time.

Our Blog, Support Videos, Webinars and Podcasts cover a variety of topics to help you understand the experience from a variety of perspectives. Check out a couple of popular topics below.

There are many great resources and organizations out there doing tremendous work advocating and supporting the AYA cancer community. You will find there is no more passionate community of support, but if you are just getting started, they can sometimes be hard to find. check out the links below for a head start.